We have been very nervous to use FB for our LS adventures. We have never trusted the security of FB not to get connected to our other life.

But it seems that many of you DO in fact use FB for your LS activities....

Question:

Can anyone help guide us through setting up a completely separate and private alias FB account?

We do not want to use either of our phone numbers or our emails....that would most definitely link back to our original accounts.

So how do we set up an alias account without using our personal info? Does everyone just set up another email account just for FB? and not use any phone number....will it let us do that?

Or are we just worrying too much about it and it's not that big of a deal?

What does everyone else do that uses FB for the life style??

Thanks in advance.

Cheers Fromus

It seems like the forum post from one of the EX - M4 employees got removed from here two days ago. Did anyone else see it before it was deleted from the forums?

Does anyone know how secure these FB groups are as far as connecting the user to their family and friends? Now I realize that having a 3rd dummy account is obvious but even then.... FB is very good at connecting the dots and before you know, your showing up on your mothers account. Has anyone had experience with this or concerned. Or have a fool proof way of how to avoid these privacy issues? And with so many of these FB groups out there now, how does one know which one to be a part of? Is there groups that tend to be more local to ones location? etc.

We are also actively searching for more intimate house and/or hotel parties to attend. We have NO interest in any of the M & G's or the workshops. We want parties that if we connect with someone, we can play but we are not necessarily going to always be DTF either ! But if there's people there that we connect with, we will certainly get down & dirty, lol. We agree with many of the comments made here.....ex. "funtimez"... We would also like some time to get to chat with people that we may possibly have sex with, lol. We are not Ken & Barbie ourselves but we do workout and stay in shape and are looking for the same in others that we might possibly play with so knowing (or more so, seeing) who is going to be at these parties is a big factor for us. We have went to small parties before without seeing the attendees and although everyone is very nice, there was no one that we matched with on a physical level. And although there was no pressure to play with anyone, we still had gone through the effort to clear our schedule, pay a dog sitter, book a hotel, drive there, etc, etc. We don't like to use the term "wasted our time, and money" but we kinda did. We are at a stage now that with just a little notice, we can travel and get a hotel near where a party is happening as long as we have seen the list of attendees and know that there will be at least some potential play partners there...... like funtimez, wink wink.

We are currently considering all invites, lol.

Cheers Fromus.

Barrie area would be nice for some sexy party's / gatherings.

But a public bar? Wouldn't this be the same as some of the "meet & greets" that happen? You can't do anything there....all you can do do is meet and then possibly go somewhere else to do the deed. Or exchange numbers.

And what would the sign be?? So you're not just approaching everyone asking "are you a swinger?" "are you a swinging?" etc.

Hmmmm, We never heard that term before, don't get out much, lol.

I'm guessing Yoni is a sexual massage?? Interesting. And is this legal?