"You might as well laugh as cry, cuz neither one will change a thing"
"when you are perfect...only then is there room to criticize others"
Good mottos.
I like the last one the best. :)
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Freeman
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
0 km · Peace River
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Quote by BASins
Personaly I would like to really see how may really have one or have ever thought about it!! ;p
So what is yours and be truthful??
I used to have a motto; "I'd rather be sorry for something I did then something I didn't do."
I dropped that motto after I made a few mistakes I really really regreted.
Now I don't have a real motto. I just try to imagine what it would be like to be the other person and then act the way I would want them to treat me if I were them.
Corny yes, but it makes it much easier to shave in the morning.
Quote by Different
Yes! Within three months of joining we met two couples, and know of several others through our network who have found couples on Swinging Heaven and met in person and played.
I believe it is more difficult for single men, because for some reason couples shut them out. And there aren't very many single women on this particular site.
Single men get shut out and attached men who's partners won't or can't get involved that much more.
It makes me wonder why. When I was married I had more then one married woman suggest that she was interested in more then just friendship and it was clear that her husband did not know and would not know. And we all know at least one married man that hooked up with a single lady and subsequently left his wife.
But online such women don't seem to exist at all.
I don't understand why, all I know is that it is frustrating to not have any opportunities to be with someone just because you refuse to abandon your partner because she is no longer capable of sharing that one thing.
I believe his response says it all.
If he didn't want to meet you in a public place and didn't have the stones to tell you that then you had good reason to be cautious.
But don't be angry, be glad. You did the right thing and probability saved yourself a lot of grief.
As for the waste of time, that's life unfortunately.
I hope it doesn't stop you from trying again. Think of it this way, now you know what to look out for.
There are more good people out there then bad, and you now know how to avoid at least some of the bad.
If he didn't want to meet you in a public place and didn't have the stones to tell you that then you had good reason to be cautious.
But don't be angry, be glad. You did the right thing and probability saved yourself a lot of grief.
As for the waste of time, that's life unfortunately.
I hope it doesn't stop you from trying again. Think of it this way, now you know what to look out for.
There are more good people out there then bad, and you now know how to avoid at least some of the bad.
Quote by Unknown
Hello,
I know that we are all adults here. I am new to this site and I just meet someone who wanted to have sex with me in my apartment. However, I wasn't thinking and then I texted this man to meet me in a public setting first, so that I get to know him before we had sex. And it's also for safety reasons as well.
Needless to say that he didn't show up at the appointed time that he suggested. That got me angry because I just wasted my time waiting for him. And I also blocked him from ever texting me again.
My question on this site is, is it proper to meet someone in a public setting first before fucking them in private?
I think a lot of people are just really nervous when they join a site like this for the first time.
For me, I don't know who might be able to see my profile. I don't know if someone here might know someone I know.
All I know is that the people I work with would love to have information like this to use as the basis for their so called jokes or to use to gain advantage over me. Maybe they will never see it, but I would rather not take that chance.
Hi.
I figure everyone here was in the same boat at one time so I have nothing to fear.
On the other hand, if they judge me harshly they'll never get to know who I really am. And that's their loss.
Don't get me wrong. I'm nothing special, just an average guy who wishes no one any harm. And I'm not the life of any party or the kind of guy everyone wants to be with. But I did sleep at the holiday inn once, many years ago. ;)
Really, from my point of view, and I suspect many others point of view, being new and nervous is kinda sexy.
Besides, it's like anything else in life, you'll get over it soon enough. Enjoy it while it lasts. :)
Besides, it's like anything else in life, you'll get over it soon enough. Enjoy it while it lasts. :) 