New to the lifestyle.   Been learning a lot over the last month. But mostly how friendly and open most people are.   We have been together a long time (almost 40 years) and have had some major ups and downs in our relationship.   We are now ready to make changes so that we share new experiences and make some lasting friendships at the same time.   Life is definitely too short to get hung up on the same routine.   We missed out on experiencing the single life in our 20s and are done with forbidding each other from these experiences   We want to share excitement, flirting, and the experiences of something different without losing what we have.