Still trying to figure out what we want - we are new to the lifestyle, although we have been to a couple lifestyle resorts (Desire) in the past and have had a great time and great experiences, with each trip leading to more.  We are now looking for something closer to home; privacy and discretion are very important to us.  We are looking for other couples (or a single female) in similar situations to get to know and potentially explore with (soft swap).  We have been together for over 20 years and we want to build on the adventures we have had. D/D free is a must.  We would ask that single males not contact us as we are not interested.