We're a married couple who have been swinging for a few years and have met new friends, two of whom we particularly adore.  While our lives are very full (be it responsibilities or the fun we are already having) we are keeping an open mind and an eye for adventure when it comes to meeting new couples.

In the meanwhile, here are some thoughts....

[His idea of a sexy date]: a woman who sparks my mind with good conversation....which takes a sexy turn, leading us to the  bedroom for some vanilla fun.  I've always been turned on by women with somewhat tall athletic builds even if I'm married to a slim petite Asian woman and love her sexy body too.  Having a foursome and watching the husband make my wife horny and fuck her until she screams, while my own cock is deep in his wife doing the same.   

[Her idea of a sexy date]: flirting with a handsome, intelligent yet somewhat exotic man, thinking nothing will come of it, and then being surprised to discover the interest is returned, and slowly letting her guard down to play...and discovering he's firm, maybe a little aggressive, yet trusting him enough to pretend to submit....   If I'm playing with a couple or in a threesome, I love watching my husband fuck another woman, while she writhes and begs for release. Yah chickie, that's MY hubby's big cock penetrating you.... it feels so damn good to know his cock is the one making you scream with pleasure, call it pride, call it vicarious pleasure, or maybe a tiny bit of a power streak inside me too..... p.s there are bonus points if you like to go dancing... (oh and did I say i like smart men?)