Of all the guys you can choose from, why me?

You want someone who is socially savvy. That dresses well, grooms well, speaks politely, and is attuned to reading a couple‘s body language. That pays particular attention, and asks probing questions to understand the couple’s needs. Understands that he’s there to provide an experience, and not to become part of the dyad.

You want someone that's there not just to fuck the wife, but to also understand the husband’s needs. Whether the husband desires a cuck of humiliation, or whether the husband is a Stag who sees himself as equal to, or greater than. If the Husband is a cuck, you want someone that will seek to understand the humiliation limits. If the Husband is a Stag, you want someone that will concede, and show gratitude for being part of the scenario.

Above all you want someone that is able to perform. That doesn't waste a couple’s time. And that can look into a Husband’s eyes while fucking his wife hard and fast, while she’s writhing in ecstasy on his hard thick cock.