* Updated January 2023 *

*** Currently living in the mid  Vancouver Island area ***

Ok... If you’re going to contact us and you have no pics on the site include a face pic of yourselves. My face (Daizi) is the profile pic, yes it’s a filtered pic but it’s me and it depicts what I currently look like (January 2023 and most say I don’t look like I’m in my 50’s). It’s not really fair that some of us feel secure enough to post our pics and some say “we want to be discreet, we will send 1 if we meet, blah, blah, blah”... we’re not going to post it all over the internet, we just like to see who we’re chatting with, it’s common courtesy since you’ve seen me (us if you want a face pic of both). So, no pic = no chat/response. We’re all adults here so buck up and share!

*** Adding friends = only after chatting. We also don't add people that don’t have any pictures on their profile (you can see ours so we don’t think that’s fair) nor do we add single men... we're not friend collectors - WE'RE LOOKING FOR: real live COUPLES, those in committed relationships, not FWB’s and no singles, in our area (BC - Mid Vancouver Island) for FWB's for ongoing, casual fun with no pressure. It's not our life, it's our enjoyment ***

** NO SINGLE MEN ** just not our thing, sorry, and this won't ever change. If you're attached but don't play together, don't bother asking to join, it will always be a NO. COUPLES ONLY!! If you're cheating on your spouse or partner - those of you that are FWB playmates, don't bother contacting us... we don't do drama and we don't play with cheaters. If you're looking to chat about non-sexual things, that's fine. We don't share any likes or personal information about "what we're into" with people we don't know in person or play with, this also applies to men in COUPLES. No, I don't want to see any pics, I don't want to cam/cyber nor do I want to "see" or "watch" you get yourself off or do anything online other than have a normal conversation - no sexual innuendo thank you very much unless we’re in an ongoing play relationship. Respect goes a long way & you don't look like an ass... Daizi (It's not "worth a try to ask" so don't waste your time it's a huge NO!) Thanks go out to those of you that do read this, respect what's written and never contact us - it's much appreciated so, again, THANK YOU!

Ok, I'm confused... Why on earth would you keep your location private? We're all here for similar reasons... Fun, discretion and finding like minded "friends". If you're looking to meet people in person location is kinda important, just sayin'!

We are not new to this lifestyle but have limited experience, by choice, and are NOT looking for any singles @ this time, thank you. We've been married for over 30 years, we're very committed to each other and have a very healthy sex life. He's very straight, not even a bit curious and she's Bi but is respectful if the other woman is not. We're more into quality over quantity so we're VERY selective on who we play with (we don't "do it" just to "do it" so please don't take it personally if we decline as there has to be an attraction to both for her and to her for him) and we're looking for ongoing FWB friendships instead of 1 night stands. We're looking to stay between the ages of 35-60 (our kids are 31, 32 & 36)... please respect that. We prefer meeting in person (this helps establish if there is any sexual chemistry) rather than cybering. I (Daizi) do not play alone so please, do not ask. Soft and/or full swapping is something we're both very interested in and we're open minded about almost anything else.