Looking to find a like minded man. Dating in the vanilla world can sometimes be challenging as not everyone is open to the experiences I have had and would like to continue. I am obviously a very open minded lady but my number one condition is that I be treated with respect and like a lady. 

I am not looking for a FWB. I am not looking for a one night stand. I also don't jump in bed with someone on the first date. Perhaps I have wandered into the wrong place to have those sentences in my profile but I like to be upfront and to the point. Sex can be found easily, especially for women, and I am looking for much more than sex. If you are married or in a serious relationship please keep looking. If you are going to lie about it, I will figure it out. I am not looking for ongoing online chatting. I am looking for a real man, who is over 40 (no exceptions to this for me), single and respectful.

As may be evident here, I know what I want and most definitely what I don't want. I have met the douchy guys in the online world. Can spot them an IP away. However, I remain hopeful that I will find a highly sexual good guy who makes me laugh and who knows how to treat a lady in and out of the bedroom. 

To any couples, no need to send any messages as I am 100% not looking to join. Love threesomes but prefer being part of the couple.