We have been in the lifestyle for six years now and we are having so much fun! We like X-Club super parties, M4 nights, intimate hotel gatherings, house parties, and making new, super sexy friends with benefits. We usually can’t host but he’s happy to drive two hours for a good time and she is happy to change into PJs and sleep in the car all the way home. It’s efficient. You should try it.

She does outdoor workouts including running and jumping on her backyard trampoline. (It's hers.  Sometimes she lets the kids use it.) He does cross fit and then tells her how many squats and pull-ups he had to do and then wonders why she isn't joining cross fit.

Vanilla friends describe us as outgoing, funny, caring, and intelligent. Lifestyle friends describe us as attractive, friendly, sexy, and fun. He works in tech; she is in education.

We’ll tell you our boundaries before we play, and we will always respect your boundaries too. Condoms are a must.

Our backstory: After 15 years of marriage, we were best friends and great lovers together, but we were ready for something new. We discovered the lifestyle in January of 2018 and we have made the most of our time since then!