Intelligent, Unabashed, good to know so you leave it alone.
Getting arrested, jailed and cell mates finding out ... thats a whole new set of life ruining problems for ya dumb f.

Hello, I appreciated this candid exchange. As a single fellow, a new paid member, I was quite unaware of the stigma I'd face here ... alone. I see what happens to those who take a direct approach. That said, it's quite right. This isn't the place for a direct approach. Democracy is on another site. So is Equality. And neither site is Sexy.
I'm a fellow who's good at finding what works and then becoming part of that / a gentle advocate for it.
Here's a Q: Are there single Lady's that flirt about Swinging Heaven for the purpose of Partnering, yet not wanting to be married to a `Him' ? Does that Always happen by her meeting Him via recommend's, given out by the only swing-set in the playground ? Or do single women always free-dance here? There can't be a stigma on that }:[ but I'm jealous Logic says `She' doesn't meet her `He' while going solo at a Partee. Please point to what works. Am I in one of my `Duh' moments ?
A flow-sexual life has been my goal & it seems that's a No-go. I side with Mr. Anonymous on this. While he will have to change his sexy name , maybe he can help me, help Us find Wing-woman. Trying that alone on Tinder or in real-town gets you Turned down. Even with the fore-warning of calling myself FwBen met only rebuke. It makes for a Cold-cup conversation in a coffee shop encounter. I even spent the last year in a nice relationship, predicated on us being a duo and entering into the LifeStyle. Great test sex ensued. We trained for months! But wow, as I invested time and proved my sexual self eager, able and amicable, she began leveraging my desire to her power position. And that felt like....marriage. You know, like sex is always used on men. Well I'd hate to take, dysfunction and a deal-breaker like that into someone else's bedroom... so I've been single & sexless for 6 months, Very Luckily I will NOT both Single and Cheating. Please would all 3 of you consider contributing to my research? It will lessen everyone suffering the scourge of free-Swinging males on SH. I call out ... Who have any A's ? I would love to have Advice on how I can shed my singularity here, finding the like minded wing-Woman of my creams. Wouldn't there be a way to utilize this site? If not your advice would still be helpful. and that includes you Mr. Anonymous, whoever you are. I Suggest we chat as well to see how the single Guys, all suffering here, would meet up in person and go forth as wing-Men attracting wing-Women who then go forth, on all fours aligned with our cocks to a sexponential # of couplings. ha ha ! bon-apotitties!

All this trying and no action seems due to a lack of imagining the real options. Sounds like new blood, the non-violent and highly revered Female kind, is required. Why should so many single do-able fellows not be able to bring in wing Women. Now , I venture the all-too-rare Female winglets, are so prized, if you have one... you worry. Men )[ behave... b.y.o.f.. They are interested but you have to be reliaby cool. I'm no expert, whadda I know. I imagine this is the case.

It's an interesting topic and I'm pleased to know theres som support for lonly me. ``We found that men in couples behave much better which means I don't have to act as a security guard." I pould totally f the security gaurd, so am dissapointed your off duty. Have you put Singe Men on leashes before? Try it sometime. They rarararrre-ly misbehave unless you jerk their chain.

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If the pot is overfilled with one item, the stew is ruined. How about some limit.  80/20 would work.

If its too many potatos, call it mashed potatos and gravy - mmmm good. Too much beef. What's that called. Still mmmmm good. As a single fit, and sophisticated fellow looking for luv thats not polarized, may I have some more of those delicious veggies please. I think this sites re-design could do a lot for balancing things better and keeping every one busy and happy and feeling like being familiar.

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Wow. Thanks. Absurd glitch. Personally offended. And still I wasn't getting that many hits ?