I'm married and have been for a long time now. My husband and I see other people. I like meeting new people because it is exciting. I want to explore more kinks and fetishes with different people. Personally, I prefer making a connection with someone before I get involved with them. You must be intelligent (I have no time for people who are ignorant of whats happening around them and can't hold a conversation). You must be in downtown Toronto and must be able to host.