Wanting to swing

My wife when asked by me to have a group sex, her answer was maybe. I would love to spice up our sex life. Any ideas or suggestions as to how to move forward. 

Take her to a club -- but strictly as voyeurs. Maybe seeing all the action will turn her on. If she is comfortable, suggest you two play together in a back room (or perhaps in front of others.) 

Take baby steps but make sure she is on board. Don't  jump into a orgy right away if she is not 100% on board with this.

Do you know any clubs in Calgary where me and my wife can have fun. 

Actually, the first steps start long before the clubs.  Some seem to jump right into it, whereas in our case, it is a slow road.  Step 1 was making her feel sexy.  Turn the lights on and let her know that she looks fab.  She needs to be confident enough to drop her clothes in front of others. Step 2 was stretch the boundaries.  We visited nude beaches.  We got frisky out of sight in the lakes while swimming.    Step 3 was made easy here in Toronto as the clubs have no pressure newbie tours where they reassure everyone of the rules and their safety.  Step 4 was as Kingston suggested which may get her intrigued.  Step 5 was use sites like this one to finds others on the same wave length.  Step 6 you see in our profile which is beginning with low risk shared massage.

Seems like a lot of work and time, but not everyone has the confidence to swing for the fences.  Hopefully, your wife opens herself to discovery.

All great suggestions but I'll go and add another previous step. Communication. Don't groan.. I'm serious. Hahaha. Find out why she's a maybe. My wife and I have been together for over 20 years. In and out of the lifestyle the entire time. I learned she wasn't completely comfortable watching me in a full swap situation with another woman. It took her years to admit it and become comfortable. Talking openly (REALLY OPENLY) is what brought us back the last time and we've never had so much fun.

Here you were asking how to move forward and all of us keep sending you backwards. These are important steps. Couples all the time rush in too fast and put themselves in uncomfortable situations and it leaves a bad taste in their mouths.. sorta speak.. 

Good luck 

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Actually, the first steps start long before the clubs.  Some seem to jump right into it, whereas in our case, it is a slow road.  Step 1 was making her feel sexy.  Turn the lights on and let her know that she looks fab.  She needs to be confident enough to drop her clothes in front of others. Step 2 was stretch the boundaries.  We visited nude beaches.  We got frisky out of sight in the lakes while swimming.    Step 3 was made easy here in Toronto as the clubs have no pressure newbie tours where they reassure everyone of the rules and their safety.  Step 4 was as Kingston suggested which may get her intrigued.  Step 5 was use sites like this one to finds others on the same wave length.  Step 6 you see in our profile which is beginning with low risk shared massage.
Seems like a lot of work and time, but not everyone has the confidence to swing for the fences.  Hopefully, your wife opens herself to discovery.

 This an excellent advise. Thanks you. 

Hi,

From a singles/MMF 3some fan, go SLOW, use foreplay & MOST importantly let her go at HER pace.:)