How compatible is polyamory with swinging?
I know they are completely different, but is it possible for two swinging couples to connect on a level deeper than just sex? Or is the whole point of swinging to let loose and have fun with no strings? Are we looking in the totally wrong place, or are some swingers open to the idea of "more"?
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Do swingers ever want "more" with another couple?
you know what. we've done it. for five years we've been friends with another couple, and sexually active with them at the same time. and we've had plenty of times with no sex. in fact they are our best friends, and when we had some serious family issues this year they were the first people there for us. It is fantastic.....the best of all worlds
When my first wife and I were swinging we became very good friends with two or three other couples. Our friendships were just sexual in nature to begin with but over time we became best friends out of the bedroom as well. We would meet our friends regularly as a group or just with one other couple where the ultimate purpose of the evening was to exchange partners and have sex, full swap of course. These evenings usually started with cocktails and dinner in an erotic atmosphere, soft lighting and music etc, with my wife and the other ladies dressed in sexy and often minimal attire. After dinner our clothes would come off and we would play together same room or bed for a few hours. On other occasions we would meet up to play golf, go to the theatre or to a restaurant with no intent to have sex later on, although sometimes we did! We introduced our special friends to some of our vanilla friends who had no idea about the close and intimate nature of our friendships. It was a very happy and stimulating period of our lives to enjoy time with our friends with benefits.
