New and Wondering how these sorts of things typically work..

14 Jul 2012

My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years and have a great, strong relationship. we have kids together and are just looking to have some discreet fun. we love to have sex and are very attracted to each other and our sex life is very active together, even after our son was born we were barely home from the hospital before we were fucking again.... recently we've started super dirty talk while we fuck and its lead us to where we're both pretty turned on about watching each other get fucked by/fuck someone else so now we're thinking about trying sharing/playing with another couple... I've had kids, so am a little more self conscious, I'm not morbidly obese or anything like that, I wear a size large, but I just don't know if I'll be able to get comfortable than way with another couple, or how we would even go about building that relationship... We looked into swingers clubs in our area and think maybe this may be the best place to start, I assume we could go there, fuck each other in the open and maybe a couple would approach us or something or vice versa... Maybe it would give me more confidence... Any one have any suggestions as to the best way to go about this?

29 Aug 2012

my wife and i are larger people and we've found many couples like ourselves who are very much into playing with others..we dont judge others by thier size but whats inside..