First time here. Tell me how can swingers live with jealousy when your partner is having sex with someone else or other people? This seems to not be an issue at all. Or does it? How do you handle it? I am just wondering what the mind set is here. How can you turn off your possessiveness? I am possessive by nature and jealous. Crazy to think someone like this could be a swinger, isn't it?
Also, as you are all very experienced, I am wondering if anyone can tell me if scratch marks on the stomach above the belly button are a sign of something sexual having occurred? If your partner swings with you all the time and you know their activities as you are always a part of it... then they come home with these scratches. Would you be concerned? After all, you want your partner to play WITH YOU and this is an unwritten rule and also was agreed upon at the beginning. Would you be concerned about the scratches? Are they caused by sex? And what positions could cause frontal scratches on the stomach? He said he scratched himself due to a skin condition, which he does have.
I do not like rule breakers. Not in this lifestyle.
I cannot think of anyone better than to ask this question of.
Look forward to hearing from any of you! 
