My wife and I have decided, after years of discussing it, to expand our sexual horizons and explore sex with other people as a couple. We are just not sure the best approach. There are clubs, hotel takeovers, sites like this....
Just looking for advice or examples of experiences on how to get started....
We would recommend either a club or another couple here. Not parties, they might be too much for the start… The club has the advantage that you can test how you feel seeing other people having sex, how you feel having sex with your partner in front of strangers, how do you feel interacting with other people without necessarily commiting to full swap from the very first time. With another couple on sw, you have to find somebody who would be patient and take things easy…
Have a couples account maybe to start
😋Hello
We are new to all this as a couple. My 1st marriage ended because he got attached and chose her and got her pregnant, so my now husband ( of 12 years) and I have started talking about dipping our toes in. I really enjoy being with other women and he wants me to have that but we as a couple are looking for another male (maybe couple) but very overwhelming on where to start. How do you do meet ups, where do you go to have hook ups ( our home is off limits- 2 teenager home bodies here lol). I am not comfortable just yet going to clubs with everything going on.
This is something we have talked about and feel we are in a good place to take this step.
Help please 🥰
With that history, you have to be clear with him that this is about having fun, not a romance. Like most here, we suggest you meet at a bar for a drink, not a date, just to meet. You should all look your best though! As for that first play we suggest you share a hotel room; offer to split the cost. Have a few drinks to ease the tension, maybe put on some music. We find doing own partner same room the first time is fun and sexy and if everyone is feeling it, then maybe softswap. That depends on your limits, which everyone should know. And it's ok for your limits to evolve.
Be safe and clean! We prefer bareback but always start out with condoms.
We'd suggest firstly.... change your profile... just has dick pics and all of the male. If this is truly a couples profile, your sending out the wrong message. We've been playing full-swap for over 15 years, with committed, long-term or married Couples and we wold never approach your profile because of what it says... Single Male
