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Is being a swinger ? Is a big question to some, if you look back to the times of kings and queens, they never really had anything against it; you can go as far back to say it been around for ages.
What makes a swinger? Being a swinger is nothing to do with your partner not preforming right! Its idea a fantasy or better still just something others are into and enjoy the feel and the arousement it entails, that sexual behavior…
Although so many will say it’s just wrong! There are a lot of things wrong in the world and that doesn’t mean being a swinger is wrong, at one time gay marriages were wrong or being gay was a big no no and if that is what works for them then don’t let it bother you and don’t just judge them because of it! You have your own life to think about so worry about yourself and not what others like to do… Everyone has a right to their own views in life and whether you’re straight, gay, or a swinger you shouldn’t stop others for doing what they like to do….
Being a swinger is not a big deal, being gay is also not a big deal. I’m a swinger but not into gay sexual encounters with another males, there are millions of others that are that are also swingers. But through my 30 some odd years I have grown to learn that one shouldn’t judge a book by its cover because if we all did that then you would never get to know a person or even give them a chance as being human. We all have the right to do as we feel, but hating and not liking another because they are not like you, is not the answer this world needs to learn to love each other for who they are; not what they like or do.
You have many different life styles form the rich to the poor and from the straight to the gay and beyond. Being a swinger or gay is an outlet and a way to enjoy your sexual indulgence to one another in some relationships, this is why they have clubs and getaways for that very thing. Life is an adventure and you only live once so enjoy it to the fullest. Don’t judge another by the way they see things in their own way and if you’re one of those that think and talk about it or better still read erotic books and fantasies about it in an enjoyable way, then what is really going on in the back of your mind?… that is a sign that you could be interested it trying it maybe someday.
If you have never tried it… it can be fun with the right person or people. However; the most import key to enjoying it is always play it safe and NEVER just jump to it, think about it first and then get to know the person or people involved. Ask questions, make sure they are clean. When meeting any person(s) make sure you know the place, do your research first and do it in the public eye with others around or even take a friend if you feel safer, and always think what would be the best way to meet them. Don’t jump at it the first time you meet. If you’re a part of a community that is related to this field ask others that may have been around longer if they know them or have chatted to them and if they been around for a long time. Be open with your partner if they are to be a part of it and always get their personal view as some maybe surprized what they may say or feel about the encounter, and never do it if you think it could jeopardizes your relationship.
The life style of being a swinger or gay person is a big change to what other single straight people live they’re many different diseases out there and sexual performance it’s not like a straight sexual encounter if you’re a female or gay male your performance has to be high and you need to perform multi sexual actions with more than one person if you’re a swinger that enjoys 3 sum or group action in some case, so always know what you are getting into and make sure you really what to try it before moving forwarded with your fantasies and desires.
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