House Parties

We read from many on these forms that is hard to find or get invited to house parties.

Our group hosts house parties close to monthly and is always looking for new couples and singles to add to the mix.

You can read the vouches on our profile about the parties.

The biggest issue we have is trying to find the real people on this site, so many say they are interested in Adult Parties on their profiles yet when you email them to start a conversation they just disrespect you by not even acknowledging a reply.

I’d love to go to one of your parties

please note he ask me to send him a e-transfer and got upset when I said we can talk closer to the date it’s 7th of October and he wants me to send $100 for a party in November

This is that this site is about?

These are real parties, if you get a chance check out this group. The parties fill up early, prebooking and prepay is needed to hold your spot. The ratio for single guys is 2:1 that's two couples for each single guy. There is a line up for these parties, payment ahead insures that you will be attending, no guarantee that you will be playing. Most couples prefer other couples, single guys just add a little extra for the couples.

I would have love to experience it, but at this point, I feel bullied. He asked for information because I was responding to another message. It was not fast enough for him then he got rude. I have screenshots of the conversation I will be posting.

please post the screenshots, Even we would like to understand the issue as I am also interested in attending this party.

Mrtoy I certainly understand hesitation but with the vouches posted you could have asked others for their experience to confirm. I know that there was not going to be a September party but due to overwhelming response and people turned away from the August party they decided to have one. It was successful with many new party goers attending. We attended on Saturday and it was full with still new attendees. For single men it’s harder as the ratio is something that they take pride in to make sure it is enjoyed by all. Payment secures your spot and think of how pissed you would be if you responded yes to attending and then your name taken off the list last minute for someone else attending because he paid before you did.

Yes it is on a trust system but for both that you are real an serious and him to make sure it’s a real commitment as so many people end up being all talk and no show.

Ask for names and send messages as I have spoken to people before they have attended for their first time.

Great host, great play areas and everyone I have met has been nothing but friendly.

Hope this helps you. 😊

Thank you I really appreciate that…,but I will be posting the screenshots shortly just waiting for them to upload

And as I said I would have love to attend this party I have a beautiful toy I’d love to share but the aggressive messaging was a big turn off

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please post the screenshots, Even we would like to understand the issue as I am also interested in attending this party.

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Not sure what the heck is wrong with this Mrtoy???? Pretty easy to establish the veracity of all this, just contact one of us ffs, we're all on the same site.

Nothing is wrong with me I guess you know him well

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Not sure what the heck is wrong with this Mrtoy???? Pretty easy to establish the veracity of all this, just contact one of us ffs, we're all on the same site.

I did!

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and he got all upset when I said you know what I don't think you are not a good fit and you are not invited and I think I made a good decision based on his actions on comments on this thread.

It’s ok I’ll post our conversation and let people see how you deal with your potential guest

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It’s ok I’ll post our conversation and let people see how you deal with your potential guest

Not sure what went wrong between you two. However, I want to contribute my two cents here.

I have been on conversation with "altek" for more that a month and discussed various things and never found him rude or ignorant. On the contrary, he is very understanding and accommodating. And I am the one who has not even attended his party yet. So, I find it difficult to accept that he is not good to his potential guests.

I will be posting why you should be staying with professional establishments especially if they’re charging you $100

What makes it worst is I upgraded just to be disrespected by this goof

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Not sure what went wrong between you two. However, I want to contribute my two cents here.

I have been on conversation with "altek" for more that a month and discussed various things and never found him rude or ignorant. On the contrary, he is very understanding and accommodating. And I am the one who has not even attended his party yet. So, I find it difficult to accept that he is not good to his potential guests.

I am in a similar situation and agree with the above assessment.

I think its simple, either one of you or both didn't like how the other person behaved or where the conversation was going.... just walk away from the conversation and go on with life. What is the fuss about making it public spectacle.

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I'm being painted as rude yet have I called you any names? I just said I don't think you will be a good fit for our group and will not be receiving an invite and cause if this I disrespected him. Yet I'm the bad person here.

Oh stop this I’m just waiting on the approval

your not the victim. I’m not even upset just disappointed

I have been attending Altek's party for 2 years now and he is nothing but professional and open to everyone attending his parties. The only time I have seen someone not invited back is because they chose to not to abide by the house rules. In regard to not being invited for a first time that all depends on how you converse with him. If you have a problem with the cost or making payment then he will move onto those who are serious about attending. Unfortunately when it comes to single men attending they tend to not be reliable and only tire kickers that want to attend for free. I know this first hand for I have helped in searching for new people to attend and always get the most headaches from single men.

Derek had to change the rules after I attended a party with my wife and a female friend and for the first few hours it was just us and single guys trying to pick up the single woman. She has never joined us again. So Derek adjusted the requirements for attending, making it more comfortable for us couples. CD changes ownership now here we go For those not familiar this what you are missing.

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I have been attending Altek's party for 2 years now and he is nothing but professional and open to everyone attending his parties. The only time I have seen someone not invited back is because they chose to not to abide by the house rules. In regard to not being invited for a first time that all depends on how you converse with him. If you have a problem with the cost or making payment then he will move onto those who are serious about attending. Unfortunately when it comes to single men attending they tend to not be reliable and only tire kickers that want to attend for free. I know this first hand for I have helped in searching for new people to attend and always get the most headaches from single men.

It’s our first conversation maybe you shouldn’t get involved until you have all the details

I am going to post a comment when you are bashing someone who I consider to be a friend and his parties. If you are going to make negative comments about someone you had better expect that you will receive comments back correcting false statements made.

I have had a conversation with Altek and am fully aware of the conversation between you both for he wanted my opinion of what was said.

I appreciate your opinion about your friend. so if you have the conversation you should see where I sent him the information he requested and his demeanour through our conversation. Now I’m not sure why you feel the need to defend him if he was right!

Know you know the full back story, move on.

and as I said I have no issues with the individual in fact I’m will to meet anyone for this forum at M4 at anytime or oasis where I love to swim…..and guess what I get what I’m paying for…not some back door party that seems to have trouble from time to time

Well all I can say is I have known Altek for many years , he’s the real deal… He’s a first class guy, very respected in the swinging community… We have been swinging for 20 years , so with that said there is a lot of work that goes into setting up a party … We have had a few parties of our own and know if you invite 20 people and only 15 show up it really can screw up the dynamics of the party….. so he is just trying to keep the number ratio between couples and singles … The single guys should think of them selves very lucky to get an invite actually because most private parties do not include single guy …

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We have no issues with Clubs, we attend M4 regularly and hope to attend Oasis one day.

BUT this topic is titled House Parties and they are held in peoples homes

Correct house parties with a fee is what you should put…and the money isn’t the problem it’s the attitude of the so called host!