Looking at some of the comments where people have said the females look hot but the males have let themselves go, sometimes the men can't help it. My husband quit smoking 7 years ago , he put on allot of weight and has been struggling to lose it all . He is on the keto diet and has cut allot of foods from his diet. He exercises every chance he gets , there are some people out there that cant help get overweight , whether or not its eating habits or problems with their bodies. Lets not be to judgemental here and just because they don't look good doesnt mean you should ignore them and\make rude remarks about them . I don't think of myself as Miss canada , I have my fair of share of problems , I have M.D I live with it everyday i get tired quite easily but it doesn't matter to me . My husband and I want to share our love with someone else , to see what what we see not the judgemental people on here saying he's to fat and your hot and we only want you not him. Im sorry we are a package deal . We are all on here looking for that that person or that couple to share .