Single males

Just in chat and we noticed that in the pool there were 36 single males out of 60 on.  Why ?? What is the point ?? Please help us here, just don't understand why they are on a swingers site .

Because although this is a swingers site. Couples swoping can also include adding a single male or female to the mix. That is the point  The fact you haven't figured that out is a bit baffling.

Guess we are just too dumb to understand. 

we enjoy swinging but also enjoy an extra guy joining us sometime

lol:boxing:

why is it so hard to find a married man that has his wife’s blessing to enjoy an other married lady that has her hubby’s permission. It is much safer if they are only having sex together and with thier own partners.

Yup, lots of couples enjoy adding a single guy to the mix. Believe it or not it can be hard to find the right guy. 

Adding a single guy is our preference and yup, It’s very difficult. Though couples is tricky too, trying to find compatibility across four people...

Because we want to experience something different. And everyone is here for the same thing. Now a days, sites like [removed] are over run with people looking for relationships. 

2 words. Gang Bang. (Where was that pool again?)

single guys are becoming more of a unicorn. Well...genuine ones. 

Single guys are not only here to swing with couples. Its been my experience that many of the males in mf relationships are looking for mm experience too. Some Ladies are aware, give consent and rather enjoy hubby playing with a guy. 

And wait till you are old. Very hard to even get people to respond to your messages. I am old, but the equipment works just fine, and stamina is awesome.  Gravity has been kind to my body so far, and I am an easy going guy, very open minded,respectful, and discreet. But still have had no luck  with making contact. If I had a partner it probably wouldnt be that hard, but a single old guy!!!!!!!!!! Seems like everyone thinks you dont have,crave, need, or are able to have sex anymore.

i guess there is kill , and overkill. If the pot is overfilled with one item, the stew is ruined. How about some limit.  80/20 would work.

We haven't had the chance to join a chat yet but we actually would love to chat with some single guys.  My wife loves being with two guys so for us(when we get into a chat) we how there may be a selection of single suds who are interested. We find it hard to find single guys who want to build a FWB senerio. 

Sounds like from your profile you are on the right track. Find a guy over 45 who is involved in meeting just for dinner or a drink and who wants a longer term relationship with you. Look for a guy who shares your interests in camping and is prepared to camp with you over a weekend. 

As a single male i would love to find a female interested in being a couple for swinging purposes with other couples.I have met couples  who have one partner not interested ...

The Mrs loves a mfm with a sexy, respectful single gent ;)

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why is it so hard to find a married man that has his wife’s blessing to enjoy an other married lady that has her hubby’s permission. It is much safer if they are only having sex together and with thier own partners.

 We would entertain the idea wife has one rule to be able to meet and get to know the couple or married women, and have no secrets in endeavors and blessings she will give.

As a former couple on here and now a single male, I've seen both sides.   When we were a couple, we were bombarded with single males asking to chat and meet although our profile clearly stated that we weren't into that.   Taking that experience, I would hope that single males are more respectful of what people are looking for.   I state right in my profile that couples should contact me first if they are interested as I won't reach out to them first even if their profile says they are looking for single males.   

And like somebody else stated earlier, it would be great to find a single female or a couple to enjoy the LS together on a regular basis

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we enjoy swinging but also enjoy an extra guy joining us sometime

id love to join

Man it's tough out there for us single guys. Any tips for a newbie?

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why is it so hard to find a married man that has his wife’s blessing to enjoy an other married lady that has her hubby’s permission. It is much safer if they are only having sex together and with thier own partners.

If that's what you're looking for then we should talk

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Yup, lots of couples enjoy adding a single guy to the mix. Believe it or not it can be hard to find the right guy. 

You haven't try me 😉

The Mrs enjoys the single males very much;)

Very nice 👍

Different flavors for different people, the lifestyle has so many variations a single guy is just one more option to scratch that itch.

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id love to join

What ya think

Westgta1- couldn’t have said it better ourselves.

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why is it so hard to find a married man that has his wife’s blessing to enjoy an other married lady that has her hubby’s permission. It is much safer if they are only having sex together and with thier own partners.

The problem is that there is no easy way to find such males with any of the sites that we have seen. The only method we have seen is getting lucky reading through profiles where its mentioned, rare it is though even. We also prefer men from couples, as they tend to fit better in our dynamic vs. single guys. They also tend no to be so active as single guys. Good luck!