Do people here actually meet

We find a lot of lookers and likes but none actually wanting to connect. 

We've met quite a few people on this site. Not all we played with but good portion we keep in touch. It takes time and patience is a virtue. It also helps to know what you are looking for. We are full swap couple so there is no point in contacting someone who is only into soft swap. That's why I don't understand the single men who continue to contact people where it says no single men. But that's another topic for another day...

Many many many dreamers with no action, if you're not going to meet on here, get the f*** off

I've host house parties now for 7 years and there is a lot of what I call "tire kickers", people that have no intention of meeting. In defense of my gf, she has a chronic illness and sometimes it comes on without warning and we've had to cancel. But our pics prove we do meet. Because of the group we have formed we don't have to search a lot even though we like adding new Bi people.

We have lost some to the pandemic, they just don't feel comfortable risking their health which you can't fault them for that.

The majority of the group we have by word of mouth and references from regular playmates.

But we do wish people would take the time to read our profile, we do.

As many have mentioned, I think patience is a virtue in this scene. Its hard to make an actual connection virtually and with Covid, going out to meet up can be difficult due to restrictions and needs to be absolutely worth it wrt what you are looking for (DTF, FWB). I think being clear and up front with what one (or two) is looking for is even more crucial in this climate!

Exactly spot on Quote by Luv2sucknswallow

We have spoken to hundreds of people here and of course all are eager to meet. Then upon further scrutiny we see the reality.
98% (I might be generous here, could be 99%) of all the chats are with the male-half of the couple who makes ALL the claims that she is into, she's on board, etc, etc,... but she's never online to confirm. This is huge red flag to us. If you claim to be a couple, you need to get the other half online to prove it.
From where we stand (and it's laid out in our profile), we can talk about meeting till the cows come home... but if your wife is not going to get involved in the process of getting to know each other you will NEVER meet us. Getting involved means 3 things.
i) She comes online to chat, so we can ALL interact.
ii) We ALL have heard each other voices on the phone, confirmed we are real and confirmed that we have mutual interests.
iii) ALL four of us agree to a confirmed meeting.
Needless to say 99% of people don't make it past stage one.

Well put westgta1 , so true all your comments. Its unfortunate how many people on sites are not being "real". We have learned that you have to be very careful to try to weed out people early on as well using some of your tactics above to try to save your precious time.

We have been fortunate to meet a couple people from this site, either in person 1on1 or at a club. We find trying to meet people in person 1on1 seems to always be a challenge.

Good advice, we have been doing this for many years. bang on

Totally agree. Spent more time sending out greetings and many no answers. Some I don’t believe their partners actually know what’s goi on or just won’t come out of the shadows. Do they realty think we care if we know them or. It. Not like we are going out to tell the world that we are swingers. Be mature and step up. Don’t be shy We don’t bite. Unless you want us to.

We have 14 couples coming out from here alone to our upcoming Niagara Meet & Greet on Nov 25tth. So yes, I would say people actually meet.