No offence to all the lovely individuals that are bold enough to send messages on here. My SO and I are new to this whole scene but we're finding that the only messages we seem to get on chat are from 50+ or PM from people not even close to our area….. any one else having the same (dilemma)? Just looking to meet people our own age and in the same Province that want to have a little fun.
Don't write off the older couples contacting you. You can have some great times with people older. Age is just a number, it has nothing to do with their sex drive. I enjoy playing with a gentleman that is now 70 and still going strong.
It goes both ways. I am 57 and get a lot of interest from guys in their 20s and 30s who don't care how old I am and actually think I must be a lot younger than my age. Personally, I don't care how old or young someone is, if they are legal and able and willing and consensual, then have fun! And for the record, no guys that we have ever hooked up with have ever had any complaints due to my age 
And on the other topic, yes, I constantly get messages from BC and Alberta and the Maritimes, (even other countries) even though I live in Ontario. Even most of the people in Ontario are too far away for us to consider. It can definitely be disappointing to start talking to someone, feel good about the possibility, and then find out where they live. Some people just want to talk, share experiences, share ideas. If you aren't interested in developing that with someone who is too far away then just politely bow out of the conversation.
Take charge! Start contacting the profiles that interest you and "Sorry, but no thanks" is the most you owe the others. (Assuming their approach was polite.)
