I've been married to my loving wife, Sheila, for nearly 20 years now. I can't say that we have sex every day, or even every other day. We are a Bi-couple, i.e. we have sex bi-weekly. Things have always been nice, with constant patting and flirting here and there. But the dynamite has been gone for some time now. Lately, I have been thinking of all types of scenarios to kind of spice things up. After having a quick conversation with Sheila about it, she did kind of drop the hint that if we would both drop 10-15 pounds, that may make all the difference, and if we go to the gym together, we can inspire each other. Of course, with our schedules so different, besides for the very first time, we never made it there together. Our gym membership is great because the gym is right near our home. Best of all, we can go to any gym we want that is part of their brand. Recently, I noticed a gym a block away from my office and I decided to check it out. As it turns out, it was a great gym, and way more convenient than the one near my home, because I would now be able to go during my lunch hour or downtimes at the office. Another great feature of this gym was the steam room. I hadn't tried it yet but i vowed that I would as soon as I would have the extra time. After going there for a full week, I noticed that right around the corner of the shower area, there were actually some older showers that did not have a curtain around them. I don't know what got into my mind, but I suddenly had this thought of taking a shower out in the open. A moment later, the shower next to me became occupied as well with a 28 year old adonis. I have never been into guys and such thoughts had never even crossed my mind. And yet, there I was standing under jets of high pressured hot water, looking at the man next to me. Catching my gaze, the object of my thoughts nonchalantly asked if I wanted to some help with cleaning my body. I was frozen. I did not know what to even respond or how to react. Was this something that was done? And yet, there I was..... At that moment, someone passed by, and as if we had never made eye contact, my adonis gym friend walked off. I was as confused as ever. What just happened?