Part Two After the honeymoon, we did what all newlyweds do, and settled into married life. The implied agreement was that, if we make the honeymoon video, we would take it slow for a while and seriously concentrate on our marriage. We often watched our video as part of our sex play, and found it got us really hot and inspired lots of experimentation in our sex life. We played around with anal, BDSM, power exchange, exhibitionism & outdoor sex, and a lot of other things, however we mostly kept it between the two of us. On the rare occasion where someone else would become involved in our sex play, we kept it pretty mainstream. My best friend would occasionally bring some new girlfriend over who he had told about our video, and we would watch it and introduce the girl into group sex, and generally have a good time, but nothing too hardcore. We met some really nice couple who we played with on and off over the years, but nothing reached the intensity of that first video. I think we were both dropping a lot of hints that we wanted to pursue that particular lifestyle, but nothing really came of it other than intensify our own private play. At one point about 10 years later, I was away at college living in the men’s dorm, and my wife would come down to visit me during the week and sleep over. One day after we had played around in the morning before class, she seriously suggested that I tied her up and leave her in my room with the door open, for the 20 guys I lived with to discover and use while I was in class. I am a total horn-dog, but that really shocked me, and turned me on more than I had been in years. While I was too chicken shit to do it, the fact that she was asking me for this really got me thinking that I had better give her what she wanted or she was liable to go fulfill her fantasy elsewhere. I had not realized that she missed that real, edgy sexual intensity we had experienced during that first video shoot as much as I had. So when I finally graduated from college and moved back home, we joined a local swingers club and that held monthly dances, and had a then illegal, on premises club on an acreage outside of town. Soon we met a bi-racial couple who were into serious BDSM, ( he was a huge black guy, and she was a hot little blonde) and started to party with them and some other couples from the club in their custom home dungeon. Everyone was very open-minded and friendly, and on a good evening we would have 3 girls bound in various positions around the playroom for the 3 husbands to play with as they wished. We also attended large BDSM parties downtown, some more costume focused, some more punishment focused, but none sex focused. At the same time we were attending the on-premises club out in the country, with its indoor pool, hot tubs, buffet, live band and camping on the weekends. Sometimes the orgies there were epic, and sometimes they wandered into BDSM territory, but most often very little sex happened, and we all just drank, danced and had a great time and became great friends. Eventually, as all things must, this rollercoaster ride ended. The couple with the dungeon moved, the club got found out and lost their lease and closed. The gay community took of the big public BDSM parties, and we were made to feel out of place and unwelcome. With no place left to party, the BDSM and Swinger communities were left without a play-space, and everyone seemed to drift off in their own direction. Like lots of other people, my wife and I started to cruise the yahoo groups looking for an alternative, and found some people were organizing hotel parties for swingers. We attended a few and really enjoyed ourselves. This was quite different from the from playing with friends, or attending swingers clubs, as instead of hours of drinking, dancing and general partying before we got around to sex, these parties had one sole purpose…SEX. We would show up in a nice hotel suite with a bunch of strangers, say hi, get naked and have sex immediately. The parties got really wild, and would go on for hours, with people playing and leaving, and new people showing up. BDSM in the living room, a gangbang going on in the bedroom, even people fucking on the balcony! We had finally found our niche! So we started out own yahoo group and called it Vancouver_Secret_Slutwife. (https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/Vancouver_Secret_Slutwife Check it out, it is still open.) We organized only gangbangs with my wife selecting single guys from the site members, who wanted to play, and the occasional couple or single bi-girl with an interest in trying a gangbang. Eventually we had 9,000 members, and we developed a reputation for honest, fun and secure gangbang parties where no one ever walked away unsatisfied. We always videotaped the event, in order to promote the next party by posting video captures with faces blurred on the yahoo group. Soon a lot of people trusted us to organize and videotape their gangbang fantasy, with me doing planning, organizing, security and video and my hot wife as recruiter, hostess and general center of attention/head slut.  Today, we have a massive library of hours of crazy gangbang videos of us and other couples and singles that no one has ever seen, except us, and the female participants. These videos are extremely hot and real. Sometimes the other girls had a specific request to try something out, or we would come up with a hot scenario to blow people’s minds, but they were never staged and the scenes were real people’s real reactions to outrageous sex scenarios, blistering hot and spontaneous, with everyone letting totally go in a secure and inviting environment, with my wife and I helping everyone deal with whatever surprises occurred. Often other couples would learn things about their partner, they did not know, or discover that their partner had a secret desire for something particularly kinky that they never had suspected until they saw them begging for it in a mass of bodies. We seemed to have a knack for helping others over their nervousness and reservation, and help them over any post-gangbang regrets (seldom happened) and we like to think we improved a lot of relationships along the way, as we defiantly improved our own. We were finally in a place where we could discuss our most outrageous sexual fantasies, along with the means to realize them. We had a regular group of guys and girls who were always available on short notice to come out and play. As we were looking for an outlet for our sexuality, and both had lucrative careers, we only ever charged donations toward the cost of the room, and often just paid it ourselves as we were having so much fun! Eventually opportunities in our respective careers led us to Toronto, and though whenever we visit Vancouver we organize a party downtown with our old group; things have slowed down considerably. Just recently we were discussing how we have been working WAY too hard (like most Torontonians) and how we need to get back to where we were sexually back in Vancouver. So here we are.