As a fit and active couple, we can appreciate and enjoy physical attractiveness. That isn't enough though, as even the most visually pleasing person needs to be able to connect personally. We love company and are looking for social connection first. We are new to the lifestyle and need to feel accepted and safe before embarking on anything.

We appreciate bad humor, nerdy interests, and the pursuit to better yourself and be compassionate. If you think that Marvel, DC, and Star Wars is lame, we are not the couple you are looking for. That said, we are high energy, always looking to learn or try something new, and want to expand our minds to different perspectives. Although it might sound like we are already secure and comfortable with the lifestyle, our ingrained concepts of sexuality and relationships is going to be a tough nut to crack. We are secure and we are comfortable, but we need help and have always felt like we just don't quite connect completely with our social circles deep enough. "Non-conventional" is likely the best way to describe us!