I am someone that is very pansexual, very gender fluid, and very non-judgemental.  I prefer real people with real bodies to fantasies every single time.  I also find intelligence a major turn-on regardless.  I have no issues with gender, race, ethnicity, anything really save intolerance.  I myself am a very freckled white genetic male, smooth shaven from the neck down (twice a week regularly shaven) and someone that gets off more on making others get off than my own need to cum.  Not saying that isn't important to me, but what works best for it is first being the service slut to whomever I am with at the time.  I am bluntly honest to a fault in some eyes. I would add that my wife knows everything, always has and always will.  This may not be her scene but she always knew it was mine from the moment we first met 20 years ago, I hide nothing.  I would prefer to interact with people able to maintain such openness between their partners/playmates, although it isn't an absolute red line for me, it is a strong preference.

I am fine with group sex especially with being a cum dump for people, and I am finding I am a serious anal bottom, a recent discovery, but aside from that I am well experienced in almost all vanilla sexual acts, and I have very few areas I will not consider.  I am not, however, by nature a submissive, if anything I am closer to a dominant in overall nature, but I am more of a switch in practice, although lately I am letting the subbier side be more prevalent.  Which means I am more bottoming anally, but orally and digitally (fingers, not electronic...LOL) I am truly equal opportunity slut at everyone's service.  I am fine with a certain level of humiliation and degradation language and treatment, but that is an area needing to be defined for both/all sides involved.  So long as it is kept to sex role-playing and not actual serious intent beyond that I am fine, but when I sense the real thing being applied to me, I tend to not react so well outside of when I am being my skanky slutty self in sexplay.

As well, I want to make this perfectly clear, I am an informed consent freak, and I prefer to be very clear beforehand to set parameters that way once the sex starts I do not need to interrupt for basic clarifications.  It may be a little tedious at the start, but that way once I get going I can throw myself in with full abandon, which is the way I prefer my sexplay when I can.  I have managed to get to this age without accidental reproduction or anything worse than crabs as an STD when I was young.  So sexual ethics is something that matters a lot to me.

I am quite open to pegging and such too, but I would prefer to break my ass in with the real things first (Gods and Goddesses, do I burn for the real thing!) for a while, because I have found a massive difference between the toys I used for a few years and my recent if limited experiences with the real thing, and I find I am really craving the real thing, I haven't moaned, twitched and screamed like that in decades...LOL  So any couples looking for a male bottom anal slut to add to their mix, I m good with that sort of role.  I also am good with role-play for the most part, and I will always be open to being asked to try something without being offended, I only have four real red lines sexually and I ALWAYS make them clear to prospective playmates first.  I will also add I am looking forward to my first anal orgasm, I have yet to be fucked long enough and well enough to have had one, but I can tell from my limited experiences to date this way with the real thing it is only a matter of time, and I will not be a quiet person when it happens, so if you like moaners, whimperers and possibly screamers I might suit you on that basis too.  Aside from that, asking costs nothing, and I like to try things twice because relying on first impressions not a good habit in my view.

As well, because I am such a cumslut I quite enjoy sloppy seconds too, so there is that.  Those four absolute hard limit red lines for me?  I do not do dead bodies, animals, children (defined at the absolute minimum as 18 and I am not into scat (excrement aka shit, this last one is not so much out of moral/ethical issues as it is tied to medical memories and it killing any sense of lust in me, whereas the first three repel as well as repulse me far worse) play in any form.  Anything aside from that I am at least willing to consider if not already having done in the past.  The reason for the first three bright lines goes back to that consent hangup I have, for in none of those three can it exist, and that is for me an absolute, or at least as close as I can ever do.  

I know I am currently more focused in finding males to fuck me silly, but I am truly equally willing to enjoy time with women both as their oral and digital servicer and their fucktoy, my main reason for looking for genetic males for topping me first is mainly to get a full proper breaking in with cocks, because like I said, I have noticed a major difference between my toys up there and the real thing.  I am also open to single women that want to play, so long as they are not looking for a large cock to fuck them with I am good, and I am fine with topping with strap-ons as well as being fucked by them by the lady, the temperament is there, just not the physical aspects, sadly, probability theory plays no favourites and that is one area where I came up short...so to speak.  I will also add that one of my favourite things to manage with female partners is to get them to multiple orgasms.  Not saying I always manage, but I do see it as an inherently worthy goal to strive for.  If they ejaculate on my face in the process it is only that much more attractive a goal to me, but I know everyone is different that way.

That is a starting point that hopefully narrows down for who I might be an attractive consideration and whom I would not.

Oh yes, for those that wonder about any kinks I might have, .  Up to anyone if they are interested, just wanted to be complete in how I laid myself out, so to speak...LOL

I also note I not do online headshots, EVER.  That is purely a security concern (combination of protecting my wife and the fact that I write under another alias on non-fiction serious issues, and I want to make sure I keep the two worlds separate), not any indication there is something I am ashamed of in my looks.  I am brunette, average to above average looks (or so I kept getting told all my life) very nice blue eyes and I smile easily and have laugh lines from it.  I am lucky enough to look on average 10-15 years younger than my age to people.  About 5'9"ish height and around 210lbs.  Hope that is enough for people to consider with and be warned, I do upfront consent and limits checks before I commit to anything, but once I do, I do not do it half way.  I just prefer to have the broad details sorted out before I start being my raging slut self, that way I know your limits and you know mine and we can maximize the fun within those ranges.  Good communications is essential to mind blowing sex in my experience, and I would rather take 5 or 10 minutes to nail things down first than have something go wrong for any side during the heat.