I am a slightly different person.  I get anxiety and depression at times so I don't want to meet anyone truly abusive.  Playing is ok but not degrading a persons spirit permanently.  I am into meditating to get in touch with my emotions, and I am also into fitness.  I stopped working out for winter though, but I decided it was a good time to lose weight, I lost 40lbs in 3 months, and you can see the shape of my abdominal muscles.  Right now I am just curious how this works.  I am getting older, and can count the women I've been with on one hand.  So I am looking for new experiences.  If someone wants to talk to me about this lifestyle feel free to contact me.