I'm a 40 year-old professional, clean, respectful and laid back. Looking to meet some relaxed fun people on here.

My friends know me as very loyal and outspoken. I work hard but play just as hard
as well- life is too damn short not to enjoy every moment. I don't mind
the bar/pub scene every so often but also don't find it necessary to
party when getting to know others. I find communication and honesty
between people is very important, more so than looks - we're not all Ken
and Barbies are we?

I love to give pleasure to my partner (giving full body massages with both hands and lips is a particular
favorite) and find creativity to be a big turn-on. After all, the mind is the largest sex organ we have.

I am looking for a woman or couple who have a good head on thier shoulders as much as anything else. Looks are nice and a sexy body is fine but if ya don't have much going on upstairs (or is afraid to show it) I find it hard to stay interested. I don't mind people who can voice their own opinions and thoughts, even if I may not agree - variety being the spice of life.

I will always  be discreet and am open to f or MFM experiences - the ones I have had were incredible. Foreplay is very important and paying attention to the
sensual aspects always makes the sex better

Size is not much of an issue either. I have dated both 90 pound women and some fairly large ladies
and found attitude and looks don't necessarily correlate. No one is perfect but women who consider themselves 'average' sometimes are much more a lady than those who think of themselves as a 'bombshell'. Creativity, honesty and a willingness to try new experiences is what turns me on. Being a bit kinky is even better - sex in the park can be soooo much fun!