everybody has their preferences when it comes to partners. me I prefer curves. the wife likes a broader spectrum when it comes to that. the big thing is whether we click personality wise or not. a person might look like your ideal partner but when you meet them It's a different story. and the other end of it is finding someone and even though they seem totally wrong physically you like them so much all they do is turn you on.
by the way we have seen both you and your husband and there is nothing wrong with either of you. pretty cool he quit smoking hope he can stay away from them.