We've never met anyone directly off of this site but we have met people from different sites. Finding people to mesh with can be difficult. For example, I find a profile that is interesting but as I read on it says that they aren't interested in smokers. We smoke so I won't bother sending a message or if they've messaged me I'll make them aware and that's usually the end of it. Same with swing status, how you play etc.
We're up for meeting most people as long as they understand what we do and don't do. We prefer to meet at our favourite club (M4) so of course anyone is welcome. It makes it easy if there is a connection but also if there isn't you aren't stuck with us.